Living the Fairytale Life With Belinda...
This week you are in for a real treat. I want to thank Belinda for sharing such a precious and personal story with all of us. Enjoy!
For many
of us Disney fans, getting married in Disney is far out of our reach. It was
for Shawn and I back in 1999 when we said our wedding vows. We always knew
something was missing that day, don’t get me wrong, the ceremony and the
wedding was beautiful but it did lack that one little spark… the magic of
Disney. We vowed this day that on our ten year anniversary, we would renew our
wedding vows Disney style…. And boy did we do just that. I want to share with
all of you this magical day that was filled with so much Disney magic and
Disney love. I still cry when I look at the photos and think back to just how
amazing Disney is in capturing romance…. It truly felt like a day in
Cinderella’s shoes.
Our vow
renewal took place on the Disney Magic. From the moment we arrived on the ship,
the wedding magic started. I was ecstatic. Our wedding coordinator, whom kept
in touch with me long before the cruise arrived, was amazing. Before you ever leave home, you do everything
from pick out your wedding songs to all the other little details of your
ceremony. We chose to walk down the aisle to the “Beauty and the Beast theme”
and the music that played in the background during our ceremony was from
Tarzan, The Little Mermaid and The Lion King. This music is played live by an
organist. It sounded so beautiful. You will also pick out the kind of cake you
want, the flavor, your topper and of course, your first dance wedding song. We
danced to “I don’t Want to Miss a Thing”, by Aerosmith. Lord help me if I hear that song when I’m
driving *tears*. When we stepped on the
ship, there were gifts abound waiting in our stateroom, along with what the
formal invitation looks like and a sweet card from our coordinator. Ladies! You
would love these gifts. We received a Disney Fairytale wedding beach bag that
was super cute, a huge Mickey and Minnie wedding photo box with goodies all
inside, and a double sized beach towel with the wedding logo and a picture of
the Disney castle made out of sand with the ship in the background. It was like
Christmas!!!
We also
received many other things nightly when we came back to our room. This
consisted of things like chocolate covered strawberries, little appetizer
plates, petit fours and champagne. It
was wonderful. I knew from the moment we arrived on the ship, I never wanted to
leave. I felt like Cinderella getting ready for the ball. I had everything from
my prince to the magic... And it was all so perfect.
Getting
ready for the big day, my flowers arrived that morning. They were gorgeous! You
get to pick out your bouquet too. My colors were pastel pink and purple. I even
brought my own petals to have placed down the aisle for the ceremony. Shawn and
I decided that before the ceremony that day, we would go down and take a peek
of what it looked like. I wasn’t going to, I was already was so nervous but I just
couldn’t stand it, I had to go see! I never in my dreams expected what I saw. I
knew of course that it would be pretty, after all this is Disney, but I never
expected the backdrop of the ocean on this beautiful Disney ship to make the
view so breathtaking, I was speechless… and in tears. It really overwhelmed
Shawn and I when we saw it all set up. We were high school sweethearts, had
been since we were 16 years old and the butterflies were there. I was like a
school girl again and super nervous but never more excited than I was at that
moment!
It was
time to get ready! Unfortunately my family was not able to attend during this
time. I was a bit saddened to not have my mom and dad there but they were close
to my heart. My mother had bought me a beautiful heart locket where she placed
a picture of her and my Dad on one side and my late Nana on the other. I wore
it that day with my dress, so in spirit they were with me. All of my Disney
friends of whom I met in a forum and we became one big cruise group attended
our ceremony that day and watched and took pictures from the balcony above. The
ceremony was so private and romantic, just me, my prince and a lot of Disney
magic. It was a day I will never forget. They had already come to get Shawn so
I could get ready without him seeing me. Our coordinator sent one of his
assistants, a lady, to help me get ready. I was all set! They snapped a picture
of me on the way down to meet my honey. I was ready to go!
The
ceremony was perfect, everything from the vows, to the ring exchange and the,
“you may kiss the bride”! Of course, I cried, my mascara ran and Shawn had to
wipe my tears but it was beautiful. I never felt the movement of the vessel.
All I could remember was how the sun was beaming upon us and the waves were
crashing against the front of the ship. It was like being in a whole new world
and it was perfect. At the end of the ceremony, all of our dear Disney friends
cheered and clapped. I was so happy and so emotional. This had turned out the
be the best day ever and I couldn’t wait for what was next.
It was
time to cut the cake! I was in love with my cake! A Disney cake!! Yay! It was
so pretty! I had bought my own topper and brought it with us to have put on. It
was perfect! And the cake was huge. We had a Bavarian mousse filling. It was yummy.
After we cut the cake, fed each other a piece, and exchanged a sip of
champagne, it was time for our first dance. This was going to be memorable... Dancing
on the Magic while sailing through the Caribbean with Mickey! What more could a
girl ask for.
I think
the dance is the part of the ceremony I will remember most. It was like a
dream; like I needed to pinch myself to make sure I was awake. I can still
remember the feeling I had as I looked up at Shawn and he had tears; Just
hearing Aerosmith play as we danced all alone on the back of that ship was the
best feeling in the whole world. It was like the ship was ours, and all around
us Tinkerbell was spreading her magic, we were captured in a moment that was
priceless... and something only Disney could do.
I cannot
put in to words just how truly amazing this was for us. If any of you have ever
considered a vow renewal at sea with Disney, go for it! It will be a moment in
your life that you will treasure forever. I wake up every day as a Disney bride
and remember that one special moment when Shawn danced with me. I can’t get it
back but I have it stored in my heart forever. Disney creates and captures
moments that are priceless, that no one else on this earth can do for us. I am
so blessed to have been able to experience and share this moment with the most
amazing man a girl could ask for. This was a true fairytale, a Cinderella story
that came true and on that day…. I was the princess. Our dream was to renew our
vows again on our 20th wedding anniversary with all of our family
with us. Sadly, my Daddy is a much older Daddy….. If I waited that long he
would nearly be 80... In my heart I’m afraid what would happen if I waited that
long. So Shawn and I hope to share this dream again for possibly our 15th
wedding anniversary so that with hope, my Dad can be there so that Disney can
capture the magic once again only to create a memory that this little girl has
longed to have with her father. There is a Disney princess in all of us, for
all of you that are considering a vow renewal, you can’t go wrong with Disney.
Bring out the princess in your heart and become a Disney bride, it will put
magic in your heart that will truly last an eternity.
Keep Believing
Belinda
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